A demand letter shows up and your first instinct is either to panic and pay, or to throw it in a drawer and hope it goes away. Neither is the right move. Here's what to actually do — in order.
What a Demand Letter Is — and Isn't
A demand letter is a written notice from someone claiming you owe them money or have caused them harm, demanding that you take a specific action — usually pay — by a certain date. It is not a lawsuit. It is not a court order. You are not legally required to pay simply because someone sent you a letter demanding it.
That said, ignoring it completely is also a mistake. A demand letter is often the last step before someone files a lawsuit — and how you respond can significantly affect your position if litigation follows.
Do This First — Before You Respond or Pay Anything
- Read it carefully. What specifically are they claiming? What are they demanding? What is the deadline?
- Do not respond immediately. Anything you say can be used against you. Don't fire off an emotional email or call the other party directly.
- Gather your documents. Contracts, receipts, communications, photos — anything relevant to the dispute.
- Note the deadline. Don't let it pass without having a plan, even if that plan is to dispute the claim.
⚠️ Do not admit fault in writing. Even an apology email can be used as an admission. Say nothing in writing to the other party until you understand your position.
Questions to Ask About the Claim
Before you decide how to respond, you need honest answers to these questions:
- Is the claim legally valid — do they actually have a case?
- Is the amount they're demanding reasonable or inflated?
- What's your actual exposure if this goes to court?
- Do you have defenses they haven't accounted for?
- Is it worth negotiating, disputing, or simply paying to make it go away?
Why a Legal Review Makes Sense Here
A demand letter is exactly the situation a flat-fee legal review is designed for. You get a professional assessment of the claim's legal validity, your actual exposure, and your realistic options — before you commit to any response. That analysis can be the difference between paying a inflated demand out of fear and negotiating it down, or discovering the claim has no legal merit and responding accordingly.
The cost of the review is almost always less than the cost of getting this wrong.
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